you know .. i don't know if it's some sort of lesson for me or if this is common .. but on several occassions .. it seems the 'exes' keep in touch with the mother, sister, or other family member of their ex .. who i am dating ... so they feel free to stop in at any time to visit or just keep ties .. and it's kinda annoying and you question their motives ... it's like .. oh i am just passing by "blink blink" all innocent like ... whatevers.. but in reality you know some of those types of women/girls .. just want to be up in your business and waiting for opportunities for an opening ... in my opinion .. if you are not with someone anymore .. out of respect .. and maybe some (ya right) heartbreak .. you gotta check out of their family ... it's part of the package of "breaking up/off" ... jeez women!
am i just cold ? or does this make sense .. help me understand hehe
k venting :)
am i just cold ? or does this make sense .. help me understand hehe
k venting :)
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Re: momma
Wed, June 30, 2004 - 3:30 PMmakes complete and perfect sense. i no longer talk to my exes family, nor do i seek to. if i were to see them on the street or whatever i'd be nice and polite, but it really does go to far to keep yourself involved in your exes llife, especially if you are no longer friends. that makes all the more shady.
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Re: momma
Wed, June 30, 2004 - 3:54 PMi am really good friends with my ex chris, and we ask about each other's family all the time. i have no attraction to him anymore, and feel nothing but that deep friendship which comes from a past love connection. i can't control how chris' current g/f feels about me, but i know that she's chill enough to have me stay at their place over memorial day weekend. *shrug*
but i guess you're talking about a situation in which you personally are not in contact with the ex, but your family is. in that case i would ask my family to respect my decision not to be in touch with the ex, and try to not discuss anything about me or my life with that ex. if the ex is only there to find out about you, then they will go away if they are not getting the info.
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Unsu...
Re: momma
Wed, July 21, 2004 - 8:03 PMhola
have an ex whose family was a matriarchy run by a tiny granny right off the set of bugs bunny. when splits (divorces, suicides, et al) happened, the women were always invited to join the collective.
said grandmum was once bitten by a kangaroo. perhaps it was a male kangaroo.
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tho isn't your scenario more like "stalking"?
